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Do you remember your first date?  Were you scared to death?  Do you remember planning and primping while dousing yourself in cheap cologne? Or where you the girl whose head was literally a fire hazard and considered highly flammable due to your excessive use of aerosol aqua net?  Either way dating as a teenager or young adult was scarier than a hyped up Easter bunny in the mall.

Now, fast forward to what feels like a lifetime into the future and you are now a single parent.  You find yourself dazed and confused wondering what to do with yourself?  Let’s just assume that you are marketable and ready to exit stage left and star in your own wonderful comedy world of dating as a single parent.  So you pay all the fee’s to join the online dating sights you have seen on the 2am infomercial while curled up on the coach with some tissue and a half gallon of rock road ice cream.  Don’t deny!  We have all been there and that is ok that you had a momentary lapse of sanity and ate the whole half gallon.  But, now my friend it is time to get up off the coach and as the most annoying teenager on TV would say “get your head in the game.” 

From that oh so well spent money on the online dating service you have now learned what color you would be if you were a crayon, you have heard all about your bountiful, astrological traits and if you were a celebrity you would be Cyndi Lauper.  Well the fact is your not.  You are not a celebrity and you definitely cannot carry a tune like Cyndi.  So its time to see what is really outside of the sweet, safe, comfortable four walls of your home that you have surrounded yourself with.  Outside these walls and barriers that you have put up is a whole beautiful world full of adventures and lessons to be learned. 

Did you know there are tons of amazing places right here in our very own city of Tree’s where you can meet other single parents just like yourself.  How about a network of some friends who understand what you are going through being a parent?  They understand if you are late to your date because your child’s pet lizard “Iggy”, had part of his tail torn off in a scrap with the cat.  Good news, the tail will grow back, Better news, your date was also late due to a toilet emergency regarding a spider man action figure and you both are able to laugh a little right off the bat.  Ahhh.. The life of being a single parent never has a dull moment.

The fun part is that you both can pretty much predict future happenings or should I say mishaps? You have the craziest lifestyle since you are ultimately responsible for other human beings beside yourself.  You both know what a humongous amount of time and devotion goes into your life and you completely understand and love your crazy life and so does all the other fellow single parent team members.  So, stop waiting for that special someone to match your personality profile via online services and actually get out and join those fabulous local events in our area.  Your future is waiting right here in your very own back yard.  It may not be a love connection it may be the surprise of a lifetime that you find out a lot about yourself as a person and remember who you are outside of being a parent.  Good luck and enjoy your staring roll in life!

I am Jennifer Lynn, your personal sexual wellness coach. 

Have great sex, 

Jennifer